What Jeremiah can teach us about hearing a different story

The word of the Lord came to me, saying, “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations.”

“Alas, Sovereign Lord,” I said, “I do not know how to speak; I am too young.”

But the Lord said to me, “Do not say, ‘I am too young.’ You must go to everyone I send you to and say whatever I command you. Do not be afraid of them, for I am with you and will rescue you,” declares the Lord.

Jeremiah 1:4-8

When stories compete

The book of Jeremiah starts out with God telling a story. The story of who Jeremiah is, who he’ll become, and what he’ll do.

Some people use words like “destiny” or “fate” when referring to outcomes in life. The word “fate” derives from the the latin word fatum which literally means “that which has been spoken.”

So, God is speaking something to, over, and about Jeremiah. His “fate” if you will. But, Jeremiah is telling a different story. A competing story.

“I don’t know how… I’m too young.” (verse 6)

Now before we give the young lad a hard time for arguing with Almighty God, let’s at least acknowledge that he’s merely recounting the facts.

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Ironman 70.3 Lessons – Part 2: Run Your Own Race

Let the mind games begin

You work hard. You train. You learn what your body can and can’t do. You know what pace, recovery, and nutrition works and what doesn’t. You put money down. You book the hotel.

You’re ready. You show up. And, the mind games begin.

You look around at thousands of other people and begin to compare.

“But I’m not racing them! I’m racing me!”

You have to resist the urge to toss the plan you’ve spent months on simply because you are racing with others.

As I mentioned before, when I talk of “racing” I don’t mean competitively. I’m talking about the challenging thing you choose just because it’s hard.

Triathlon is the ultimate individual sport. You’re with so many other people but you’re racing alone with no help. It’s all you and that’s part of the allure.

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Ironman 70.3 Lessons – Part 1: The Clock Is Always Ticking

The number on the scale read 272. At one time or another, most of us carry a few extra pounds but that number was much more than “a few extra.” Needless to say, I needed to make some changes.

Motivation

I don’t enjoy exercise for the sake of exercise. I understand the value and benefit, but to be honest, I hate it. On the other hand, adventure and exploration have great appeal. A goal to reach or challenge to meet is much more in line with my nature.

I need something on the calendar to motivate me. A looming date that if I don’t train and stay in shape, I’ll die. Not literally, of course. Well, possibly. Not really… but, maybe.

In 2010, I decided to climb a mountain with a buddy of mine. We set a date and put money down on a guide company. It got serious quick and was time to get to work.

I dropped the weight. Got in shape. Six months later I was standing on top of Mount Rainier, the tallest glaciated volcano in the Lower 48. It was a blast!

Two men stand on the summit of Mount Rainier
On the summit of Mount Rainier, 2010
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Consuming and Creating: a plan to be better at both

New year celebrations are funny things especially when it comes to resolutions. I mean, I’m the same person at midnight as I was an hour before waiting on the ball to drop. Nothing changes just because the date does. It’s just another day, after all.

pic of a new year sunrise over looking a forest
New Year Sunrise

In reality, every new day is a day we can evaluate life and make changes if we choose.

But, there’s something about resetting the clock. A fresh start. A new year full of possibility.

As Chip and Dan Heath put it in The Power of Moments, New Year resolutions really should be called “New Year absolutions.” It’s like the slate for old me is wiped clean and new me has the potential to come alive.

We’ve all tried (and failed) at resolutions before. So, I took a different approach this year. I decided to take an entire month to discover areas of change and focus for 2019 rather than determine them by brute force.

I began with a solid look back at 2018. And then, I took inventory of my habits as they relate to my personal values.

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My 2018 Top 100

Like many of you, I’ve spent some time over the past few days reflecting on 2018 and looking ahead to 2019. Of course, there have been tough spots and low points just like any other year. Because my nature is to only focus on areas that need improvement, I’m aiming to celebrate more.

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My Best Nine for 2018 on Instagram

This list took some effort and I think it’s solid. And, I feel a deep sense of gratitude. Some of these are a bit more personal. Others might seem self-congratulating. But, my hope and prayer is that through my sharing, it will inspire you to look back and find those gifts from God in your own life. We don’t deserve them, yet because of God’s generosity and love, we have the freedom to enjoy them. 

I also hope it challenges you to reach higher in 2019. When I look at this list, I certainly feel that. I’m humbled and grateful but also ready to get after it.

So, without shame or qualification, I invite you to celebrate 2018 with me. Here’s my Top 100 for 2018:

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The most amazing house slippers in all of the land…

A weird dream

I had a dream last night that someone I respected a great deal and who was “very important” gave me an unexpected gift. Flattered, I unwrapped the box and opened it to find some really nice house slippers identical to ones I already own. I was very thankful and quite deferential. Going on and on, I said something to the effect… “These are great! I’ve always wanted a pair of these. Thank you so much! These are just what I need.”

I knew I already had slippers but didn’t want to be seen as rude. So, with him watching, I reached down to try them on. And, what do I see on my feet? My slippers. I made some weak excuse and ingratiated myself with a statement about how the new ones were so much better but it was still embarrassing.


Moral of the story: Don’t look to “important” people to give you what you already have.

5 Ways to Rediscover Being Over Doing

The Conversation

“How are you?”

“I’m doing great! Work is good. Just finished up a huge project. The kids are busy with soccer and music lessons. My wife is leading a small group at church and is really into it. We’re busy but life is grand!”

That wasn’t the question asked. I didn’t ask for a list of activities or what you are accomplishing. I asked… “How are you?

It’s been said so many times before that it’s become a cliche’. You are a “human-being”… not a “human-doing”. But, we rarely stop long enough to change the flow of this tide.

Our identity is wrapped up in what we’ve done, are doing, and will do. I’ve got a lot of friends in vocational ministry and there’s no other place where this is more true.

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The lady who drove me crazy and how God changed my heart… kinda

Several months ago, I received a call to work for a couple weeks on a commercial job. I had just finished a feature film and welcomed the change of pace. The client was a national brand and the agency needed someone local on the ground who knew the area. The inital conversation with the producer was extremely positive and I thought it would be some good fun. Besides, I didn’t have anything else going so I said, “yes.”

When the out of town production staff arrived, everything quickly changed. What was to be a challenging yet enjoyable shoot spiralled into one of the most toxic work environments I’ve ever been in. Even more than the previous project I had been on which was pretty bad.

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God loves…

“God loves human beings. God loves the world. Not an ideal human, but human beings as they are; not an ideal world, but the real world. What we find repulsive in their opposition to God, what we shrink back from with pain and hostility, namely, real human beings, the real world, this is for God the ground of unfathomable love. God establishes a most intimate unity with this. God becomes human, a real human being. While we exert ourselves to grow beyond our humanity, to leave the human behind us, God becomes human; and we must recognize that God wills that we be human, real human beings.”

Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Ethics